Young Friends Christmas Retreat

December 27-30, 2008
Saturday afternoon through Tuesday afternoon

 

At the Burlington Meeting House Conference Center, Burlington, New Jersey!

for Young Friends 9th grade (or age 14 by September 1, 2008) through college age.

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Yes you can still register. Don't Mail your Medical permission form!  The office is closed. Bring the Medical permission form with you on the 27th.  E-mail Cookie to say you are coming. Include you name, address, phone.  Are you a vegetarian, vegan or a garden variety picky eater? Any Food Allergies? I won't have access to the database that has all that information before the gathering. -Cookie

Please assume that there is space in any Young Friends gathering unless an announcement
that the event is closed has been posted here on the Young Friends web site.

Last spring the one of the basement murals suffered water damage and the drywall was replaced. During the Christmas retreat we will design and paint a new mural.

“HERE’S LOOKING AT YOU, KID” The Mural Project Workshop

Zan Lombardo is adapting her signature “EYE TO EYE” painting for this mural project at Burlington. Everyone is invited to have their “HERE’S LOOKING AT YOU, KID” eye photographed, then projected and traced onto the mural wall. Every person at Christmas Gathering will have the opportunity to paint in their own eye for posterity in any style desired —realistic, abstract, expressionistic, graphic, cartoony, impressionistic—it’s all good! This workshop accommodates all levels of art ability. Zan brings over 20 years of teaching experience in the art studio, so don’t hesitate to come and express yourself and make your mark on Burlington. Zan will help us make our eyes look amazing. Painting on the mural will continue throughout the weekend until all squares are filled and the mural is complete.

 

 

 

Richard JerramRichard Jerram will lead the group in "Gabrielle Roth's 5Rhythms." The 5Rhythms® of Flowing, Staccato, Chaos, Lyrical, and Stillness are different ways of moving that connect to and develop different ways of being. They form 'The Wave', a simple movement meditation practice that encourages us to find our own dance of embodied feeling and to discover ourselves at our most fluid and creative level, bringing more of ourselves –body, heart, mind & soul- into movement, on the dance floor, in worship, & out in the world. There are no steps to learn and it can be enjoyed by anyone, regardless of age, fitness, ability, or experience. Unlike most meditations, the 5Rhythms is practised not only with others but in relation to them. We shall move to a wide range of music. (Sunday evening)

belt weaving

Carl & Alyssa weaving a belt on an Inkle loom.

Recycle Christmas Gifts

Zac & Elizabeth got sparkle colors

Origami

Angelina Conti - Writing workshop and Quaker Youth Book Project info session
Angelina Conti Writing is a tool Friends have used for centuries to communicate about our lives, faith, ministry and witness in the world. The Quaker Youth Book Project aims to do just that, with a focus on Friends ages 15-35. Coordinated by young adult Friends from all over the world, the Project will assemble writing and art by younger Friends from all branches of the Society. Writing and art workshops are an important piece of that work-- encouraging reflection and creative work by younger Friends, even if that work is not ultimately submitted to the book. Come learn about the QYBP, how you can be involved, and do a creative writing exercise. No creative writing experience is necessary.
(Sunday morning & afternoon)

Yoga
Introduction to Yoga - Sally McQuail. Yoga is finding out about yourself; how your mind, body and spirit work together. Yoga challenges what you can do, while respecting your limits. So take a deep breath, and join us! (Monday afternoon)

Tai Chi - Kim Brosnan-Myers. Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese discipline that integrates your mind, body and spirit. Practitioners of Tai Chi use meditation and deep, slow breathing as they continuously move through a series of positions. These series of positions are called forms. Some are short (13 positions) and some are long (108 positions) but they all are done to open the joints and allow qi (or chi) to circulate better throughout the body. It begins in the mind, which leads the qi throughout the body and ends up raising the spirit. Tai Chi is one of the many components of traditional Chinese medicine, and is thought to help increase strength and longevity. It is also known for reducing stress and anxiety. The ultimate goal of Tai Chi is to harmonize our energy with that of the natural universe.
I have been doing Tai Chi over the past 16 years and have found it to be a lifesaver during stressful times and a wonderful healing exercise the rest of the time. I wish I had learned it when I was younger. My teacher is an older Chinese man who has been asking me to teach it to others for a few years now. I will finally fulfill his wish at the December Young Friends Gathering. Come learn a few basics and An Eagle Chi Gong that has me feeling like I am flying!

Belly Dance workshop - Shauna Seese (Monday morning)

Edy Nolan

Learning to Knit led by Edy Nolan & Elizabeth Piersol Schmidt.

(Sunday& Monday/ morning & afternoon)
Elizabeth Pierasol Schmidt
 
Edy Nolan finishing an afghan for graduates
Elizabeth showing off the sweater she was knitting

Angelina ContiInkle loom belt weaving. - Cookie Caldwell We will warp the Inkle looms and begin weaving a belt. You will be able to continue weaving on your own and should be able to finish before the end of the gathering (Sunday& Monday/ morning & afternoon)                        


Angelina Conti

 

Anna weaving

Andy & Miranda
Monday Evening will be a Young Friends Talent Show with skits, singing and jokes (non-sexist, non-racist, etc.; you are allowed to make fun of Quakers). You can launch your new career as an actor, singer, or stand-up comic. You could be discovered!!! Unlikely, but possible! If fact, several Young Friends have gone on to theater and musical careers in spite of our talent show. Madi Diaz   Quiara Hudes
Zac & Becca doing the precision cup stomp!
Recycle Christmas Gifts

Tuesday will be the Young Friends Meeting for Business, Recycle Christmas Gift exchange, and closing Meeting for Worship

Aase got Bath oil & Katie got an Origami kit.


 

Free time: During the late afternoons Friday & Saturday, Young Friends usually have 2 1/2 hours unstructured free time. Many Young Friends go out into the town of Burlington. Young Friends often go to the park by the river to play or to walk the half-mile river walk. Please contact Cookie Caldwell if you need additional information, have particular concerns or further questions. FYI: The Thrift Shop has closed and the building is being sold - so sad!.     

Burlington City NJ from Bristol PA      photo courtesy of John Kratz

This retreat is an opportunity for all of us -- with each other's help -- to discover new aspects in ourselves and in our relationship to God. We trust that you will come to participate in the program; that you will strive to be open and caring, worthy of the trust that other Young Friends place in you. At our gatherings, we work to create a caring, cooperative community. Young Friends will prepare meals and perform housekeeping tasks. Your cheerful cooperation in performing these tasks is as important as the program itself.
Remember to bring a wrapped recycled Christmas gift

RECYCLE CHRISTMAS GIFTS!!! BRING a wrapped gift that you don't want but that someone else might appreciate and use. DON'T go out and buy anything! This should be something fun that you already have around the house ... those purple socks with orange polka dots, that lovely present from your great aunt Rose. Remember: Don't spend any money! Nothing really valuable!

REGISTRATION AND FINANCIAL DETAILS.  COST $98.00. 
DO NOT STAY AWAY FOR LACK OF MONEY! Scholarship aid is available from the Sergei Thomas & Haley Yarmark Memorial Fund. Please pay what you can and indicate on the registration form how much aid you need.

Parents who can afford to donate to the scholarship fund are encouraged to do so. All donations are used to provide scholarship aid to Young Friends whose families could not otherwise afford to send them to these events.


SNOW PLAN: If we feel that we need to cancel or delay the gathering because of snow I will also post here on the Young Friends web site www.pym.org/youngfriends or you can call my office at Philadelphia Yearly Meeting to hear a recorded announcement. 215-241-7222, or 1-800-220-0796 extension 7222.

The Burlington Meetinghouse is located at 340 High Street, just north of Broad Street in Burlington, NJ, across the Delaware River from Bristol, PA. There is easy access to Burlington from the NJ Turnpike, I-295, the NJ-PA Turnpike connector or via PA Rte 413 over the Burlington-Bristol Bridge. There are New Jersey Transit buses to Burlington from 10th & Market Streets in Philadelphia, outside the Market East Train Station / Gallery Mall. The Meetinghouse phone number is (609) 387-3875. Click here for a look-see at the Burlington Meeting House

ACCOMMODATIONS at the Burlington Meetinghouse are in bunk beds in single-sex dorm rooms. Bring pajamas in which you will be comfortable being seen in the halls by the opposite sex and that they will be comfortable seeing you. A Friendly Adult Presence (chaperone) will be present in each dorm room.

CAR-POOLING LISTS, program updates a map to Burlington and detailed directions will be mailed December 18th so that you have time to arrange your car pool rides.  Here are Driving and Public Transportation Directions to the Burlington Meeting House along with a map.     Click here to get MapQuest driving direction to Burlington from your home.

PLEASE BRING:
Hilary!
a wrapped recycled gift, comfortable clothes, a pillow, a sleeping bag or twin-size sheets and warm blankets, a towel, flashlight, raincoat, jammies, teddy bear, games, and acoustic musical instruments. Please do not bring skate boards, computer games or pets!

SOME PRACTICAL REMINDERS:

Arrive: Saturday, December 27th after 5:00 PM. There will be a simple dinner. The program will begin at 7:30 PM.

Depart: Tuesday, December 30th at 4:00 PM, AFTER you have helped with the cleanup.

Homework Room
Some Young Friends have asked about the possibility of a "Homework Room", during the Christmas Gathering, a quiet place where they could read and catch up on school work that is due in early January. It seemed like finding a "Quiet place in the midst of 60 Young Friends was asking a lot BUT across the parking lot is the Burlington Library and they are delighted to have you use the library to study.

We used to have study hall as a regular thing during free time in the fishbowl but it tended to be noisy at large gatherings like Christmas.


Library Company of Burlington


Map showing the burlington@bcls.lib.nj.us
23 West Union Street
Burlington, NJ 08016
609-386-1273
609-386-1273 (FAX-Call First)

burlington Library

Hours
• Monday - 11:00am-8:00pm
• Tuesday - 11:00am-8:00pm

Wednesday - 11:00am-8:00pm
• Thursday - 11:00am-8:00pm
• Friday 3:00 - 8:00 pm

• Saturday 11:00 am-3:00 pm

• CLOSED Sunday

 

If you have a question, last minute registration, if you will be late, or if you need to cancel: our office numbers are 215-241-7222, or 1-800-2200-PYM extension 7222, (through 4:00 PM Tuesday, December 23rd.)
E-mail:cookiec@pym.org

It is our policy to call the parents of all "No Shows" to make sure that the Young Friends are OK and did not get lost in transit. After December 23rd, PLEASE HAVE YOUR PARENTS CALL the Cookie Caldwell at (215) 917-1771 if you are canceling or if you will not be arriving before 8 PM.
There is a courtesy phone available for free local calls and toll free number calls. Bring a prepaid calling card for out going calls.

We are still looking for two male Friendly Adult Presences

Every Christmas I am concerned about recruiting enough Friendly Adult Presences.

Please call Cookie to volunteer to be a Friendly Adult Presence (215) 241-7222 or 1-800-220-0796 extension 7222 or E-mail: cookiec@pym.org Friendly Adult Presence material and the FAP form can be downloaded from the Young Friends Adult Volunteers page.

Current Friendly Adult Presences: If you have already been cleared, then all you need to do is call, write or e-mail me to say that you are coming. Please do not assume that I can read you mind and know that you are coming. Sometimes I can barely read my own mind.  -Cookie

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