From the Fourth
May 30- June 2,
2002
To Friends
Everywhere:
We send greetings
to you from the beautiful grounds of the Menucha Retreat Center in Corbett,
Oregon, USA. We are 48 women from Northwest, North Pacific, Pacific, Baltimore,
Canadian and Central South Africa Yearly Meetings. We represent a broad
spectrum of faith practices. We have found each other to be warm, thoughtful,
engaged and smart. We have been willing to make ourselves vulnerable and to
touch that of God in each other and ourselves. We have discovered the joy of
not having to dance around to find out if it is okay to talk about spirituality
with women from different branches of the Quaker family tree.
Our theme was
attending to that which first awakened us and it intertwined over the weekend
with the issues that arose. Our awakening began with a paper each of us wrote
about the theme before the conference.
The speakers
provided their personal stories and sometimes unexpected perspectives which
served as starting points for our home group discussions.
Home groups met
five times over the three days and provided a safe place to explore our
awakenings, not always an easy thing.
Some of the issues
that flowed from the theme were the Peace Testimony, the identity of Jesus and
the role of social action. We shared how to deal with our lives as women of
faith and how to manage lives that are too full and often out of balance. The
panel of speakers spoke about how each of them experiences Christ, an often
unspoken tension in diverse gatherings. One among us said, "you can't be a
Quaker if you can't hold a paradox in your mind." From our holding a
variety of paradoxes, we have become bridges to each other and to our
communities at home. We have gotten support to do that this weekend, to hold
our paradoxes more tenderly.
We have been
nurtured by the comfortable spaces, lovely grounds of and wonderful food at
Menucha. The weather has t-ed our craving for warmth and light. We laughed,
cried, prayed, sang and had fun.
Yours in Faith,
Betsy Kenworthy -
Carolann Palmer
Co-Clerks